seperti yang tertera di atas, saya dengan ini menjemput semua rakan2 yang mungkin saya terlupa atau tidak sempat untuk memberi kad jemputan, untuk sama2 memeriahkan lagi majlis perkahwinan saya yang akan diadakan pada 13 disember 2008 di batu pahat, johor.. diharapkan dengan kehadiran kalian semua akan memberkati lagi majlis ini, insyaAllah..
silalah klik gambar di atas untuk membesarkan imej.. terima kasih..
i'm going to kangar tonite with miss N.. attending mazlina's wedding.. hehe terkejut? kebetulan nama kami sama, saya mazlina mahali, dia noor mazlina mahmod.. member masa kat brisbane, baik sangat and dia bakal menamatkan zaman bujangnya esok.. hehe, so i'm going to have fun this weekend.. nabil will fetch us at the kangar bus station and we'll leave to alor setar to "sama-sama memeriahkan lagi majlis ina and husband.." to ina, wish u the very best in your new world and saya doakan awak bahagia hingga ke akhir hayat.. nanti insyaallah, saya upload gambar perkahwinan diorang.. tapi camera memang terlupa nak pinjam kat ayang, kamera saya mahariff pinjam tak pulang2, ntah wujud ke tidak lagi camera tu.. hish..
ye, seperti tajuk post ini, "30 hari lagi.." aku sekarang sedang membilang hari bahagia yang akan muncul.. cheh3x macam 30 hari mencari cinta pulak.. InsyaAllah, 30 hari lagi aku akan bergelar isteri kepada encik muhammad umar bin abdul razak. adakah aku sudah bersedia? ye, aku perlu bersedia sebagai isteri, menantu, kakak ipar dan mungkin juga sebagai seorang ibu apabila rezeki kami datang nanti.
sebenarnya aku agak gementar, walaupun sudah lebih kurang 4 tahun aku mengenali bakal suami ku.. dia bukan lah orang yang asing lagi dalam hidupku, dan oleh kerana itulah aku mungkin bersedia menjadi isterinya. tapi sebagai menantu dan kakak ipar, mungkin aku belum bersedia kerana walaupun telah mengenali keluarga alex (umar), kami jarang bertemu dan belum mesra kalau dibandingkan hubungan alex dan family aku. haih, aku berdoa semoga keluarganya dapat menerima aku seadanya. aku berharap tidak akan ada apa2 masalah seperti mana yang selalu orang gembar gemburkan tentang hubungan menantu dan mertua atau ipar duai. aku rasa, keluarga alex mesti orang yang baik2 sebab alex pun baik. mestilah dia baik sebab ajaran dari orang tuanya, kan? hehe.
aku juga bermohon semoga perkahwinan ku ini bahagia, akan kekal sehingga nyawa terpisah dari badan dan anak2 yang bakal lahir dari perkahwinan ini akan menjadi anak2 yang soleh dan solehah. amin.
kepada kawan2 dan sahabat handai, doakanlah kebahagiaan kami. saya juga ingin mengambil kesempatan ini untuk menjemput semua rakan2 untuk memeriahkan lagi majlis pernikahan kami yang akan diadakan pada 12 december 2008 di batu pahat, johor. resepsi di batu pahat pada keesokan harinya: 13 december 2008 dan resepsi di alor gajah pada 14 december 2008. kepada mereka2 yang tidak mendapat kad, jangan lah terasa hati, mungkin saya terlupa atau tiada contact number anda, InsyAllah, saya akan upload kad jemputan saya di friendster dan facebook.
keluarga? kawan? kerja? siapa yang lebih penting? semua orang akan cakap, of course lah keluarga lagi penting, but do they act like family is more important than friends or work?well, action speaks louder than words..
i have a lot of real life examples of this kind of people who regards family is more important than friends and work but they did not act like one. contoh yang paling ketara ialah bile parents datang rumah anak sekali sekala and anak die siap boleh keluar rumah jumpa kawan2 lepak2 minum and biarkan parents tu tunggu kat rumah.. contoh kedua ialah bile suami keluar rumah tiap2 malam for sports (which obviously good for health but still smoking buat ape kan??) tapi mengabaikan anak isteri yang berada di rumah dan contoh ketiga ialah apabila seorang suami ade dinner kat tempat kerja (yang kononnya tak boleh bawak anak isteri), die makan sedap2 tapi anak2 dan isteri die makan sardin jek kat rumah... tak ke kesian? kalau lah musibah menimpa kepada keluarga mereka masa tu (mintak2 jangan lah), ha sesal dahulu pendapatan, sesal kemudian, bunuh diri je lah!!!
obviously, the three situations above are real tapi nama2 dirahsiakan atas sebab akan menjatuhkan imej. tapi yang peliknya ketiga-tiga manusia ini cakap family adalah segalanya, but don't act like it! pelik, pelik! alasan mereka kawan-kawan pun penting tapi masih tidak tahu menjaga hati keluarga, hati kawan terjaga rapi... berdosa kalau sakitkan hati kawan2, tapi afdhal kalau sakitkan hati keluarga agak nya kot!
takpelah, kepada mereka2 ini, yang boleh saya doakan ialah semoga mereka tahu betapa pentingnya keluarga lagi2 kalau anak2.. sebab bila mati, hanya tiga perkara yang Allah masih kira sebagai pahala iaitu; amalan baik, sedekah dan doa anak2 yang soleh... habis kalau ketua keluarga asyik takde kat rumah macam mane anak nak jadi soleh? jadi mat saleh boleh kot, lepas tu jangan complain kenapa anak tu terikut2 budaya barat...
tapi ade juga manusia yang memang betul2 devoted to family.. which i salute very much, kerja, kerja jugak, sampai tiap2 tahun naik pangkat. daripada jawatan kerani biasa boleh naik sampai area manager, tapi keluarga tak pernah diabaikan. kalau ade function kat tempat kerja, dia tak kan pergi kalau tak boleh bawak family. baik dinner, sports day or any other social functions, die mesti bawak anak2 and isteri die. die akan rase tak sedap hati kalau die je yang makan best2 tapi anak isteri makan biase je. naik je pangkat.. takde pulak kena potong gaji kalau tak attend dinner.. tapi sayang, anak2 die takde pulak nak ikut perangai die...
after considering all factors, i now understand that it is up to that individual themselves whether to choose family, friends or work... choices are in their hands, you can have it all, but must always remember that of all the three, family is more important because when you lose them, you will never get it back, for the other two; you can always find a replacement which maybe could be better! InsyaAllah.
i was so sad + worried + nak tampar orang + penat + sakit hati + geram...!!!! actually, adelah seorang hamba allah ni, telah memalsukan ic saya... die guna nama, alamat and no ic saya (gambar dlm ic tu je yang lain i.e muka dia) untuk membuat loan kereta from ambank. i had already have knowledge about this matter since 2004. my father had made a police report and asked ambank batu pahat to inform ambank in johor jaya about this thing. but being lembap as they are, this matter have not been settled for 4 years. abah had copy of the fake i.c but he misplaced it. we planned to get another copy of that fake i.c from ambank.
last friday, i went to jpj shah alam to renew my driving license but the officer there informed me that i cannot renew the license because my name was blacklisted. There was a summon on my name that had not been paid for almost 2 years. i was so shocked but then i asked the officer to give me the particulars of the summon. (i was still rational at this point of time). she then informed me that i was summoned at jb because i failed to show my driving license when asked by the authority and i failed to come to the court to settle the matter. i replied to her that i never drove in jb ever and asked her the plate no. of the car that 'i' drove. she informed it was JHE 5639.
what the h***, that is totally not my car or my family's cars because all our cars' plate no. are 5151. then, i remembered the incident in 2004 and told the officer about that matter. (masa ni air mata nak terkeluar dah tapi tahan jek).
that lady then cakap, saman tu dikeluarkan oleh jpj jb and only jpj jb je boleh clear my record, apa lagi, saya pun blah je lah.. but on the way to my car, i called ayang but i just said to him, "ayang, tolong" then terus letak phone sebab dah nangis2... sampai je kereta, ayang called me back and all the tears came out, i told him what happened that day... we were supposed to clean our house that saturday, but i had to go back to bp to settle the matter. so, i went back by bus from puduraya that saturday evening...
i made another police report on sunday, i was reffered to commercial crime department, and inspector anas took my sec 112 statement and transferred it to johor jaya's police station. he said that batu pahat's station has no jurisdiction to investigate the matter because the crime took place at johor jaya. ok fine, i know a little bit about this jurisdiction thing.. but why don't they transferred abah's report in 2004?? they should have made further action when abah had reported the matter back then.
on monday we (abah, mak and me) went out of the house early in the morning, had our breakfast and went to pejabat agama bp for the interview (biasela, kat johor, nak kawin kena interview dulu). but i forgot to check whether the other "mazlina" used my name to get marry here. takpe, nanti mak balik bp suruh mak check. we all bertolak dari bp about 10 am and sampai ambank johor jaya at about 12.15pm. we spoke to this one officer but he did not give any cooperation to provide us the copy of the forged i.c. we showed our police report, and i showed him my original birth certificate and my passport (to prove that i'm the genuine mazlina). instead, he said that he cannot give us any particulars because all the records have been centralized. bull shit!
for me, for a clear cut genuine case like this, the least the officer could do is to call the head office and inform them about this matter, and i'm sure they will fax the copy of the fake i.c. the officer insisted me to write a letter about this matter and he will forward the matter to the head office. luckily, abah asked me to prepare a letter before. i showed him the letter and like "ugut" dia that i will forward the letter to their head office. at that point of time, he was a little bit worried (it showed from his face) but then, he took my copy of i.c and passport, the copy of the police report and attached it together to the letter and promised us to fax the documents to the head office.
before we leave, i said that if i did not receive any news from the bank about this matter within 2 weeks, i will personally informed the matter to ambank head office and may consider to take action for negligence. (for your information, it is so easy to take a car loan from bank now, just give a copy of your i.c and salary statement, give it to the dealer, and they will settle anything else for you). i think that it is the bank's duty to personally meet their client before agreeing to approve any loans.
we then went to johor jaya police station in the hope that the i.o could settle the summon. inspector kamarul (the i.o) told us that he have no authority to cancel the summon and asked us to go to ipd traffic. so, we went there and asked them to cancel the summon, tapi lain pulak hal jadi, koperal kat situ cakap saman tu saman jpj and only jpj can cancel it. but, when the koperal checked his database, there was another traffic summon for "me" under "my car, JHE 5639."
that girl failed to report an accident with a taxi within 24 hours. huish, another problem pulak... i was then reffered to sarjan rambly. he took statement from me and promise to update me with his investigation. it was nearly 3.30 and we had to rush to settle with the jpj. we reached jpj jb at 4.15, and i was introduced to encik jelani, who then took my statement. so, i have already made 3 different statements of the same content within 24 hours time (lucky me...).
that officer then promised me that i can renew my license the next day if his superior satisfied that my i.c was forged by some other person. we went back to kl after having a big dinner at burger king. we reached kl at 9.30pm. yesterday, i called jpj jb and was told by en. jelani that i can renew my license which i already did. he told me that car is now blacklisted and any renewal 0f road tax could not be make. but i bet the car used fake road tax which they will never renew! in two weeks time, i'll call inspector kamarul and sarjan rambly to know the progress of the investigation.
actually, i just want them to clean my name and prevent any misuse of my identity. i don't mind kalau polis tak dapat tangkap that bitch but, if they do, i would love to slap her for causing so much difficulties in my life. i really hope that the police and the bank will take serious action for this. yet, i have to still report this matter to bank negara and check my kwsp status, bacause there's a lot she can do with the fake i.c and at the end of the day, i'm the one who suffers the consequences because of her action.
so, to all my relatives and friends out there, just be careful and please3x crossed any copies of your i.c, birth certificate or passport. just remember that, anyone can do anything beyond your imagination just by having possession of your photocopied i.d
last tuesday, i read one article in the newspaper stating that all the government agencies and banks must compulsarily buy this one machine that can detect fake i.c. which i presume is one good move. another good move that can be suggested or taken into consideration is, abolish i.c once and for all. just create a data base, which can be read only with matching thumbprint and we will never face any mistaken identity anymore. hope so.
